Sunday, August 24, 2008

A fool and he's money are soon departed

Abraham Lincoln said, “No man has a good enough memory to make a successful liar.”

The fact is I firmly believe if you tell the truth you don't have to remember anything. Of course I will agree that a lie has speed and hits you quick with lots of pain however it never lasts long. On the other hand the truth has endurance and will last and last and last!

One year later after the GSBC fiasco I’m still standing tall with colossal fortitude and success! Cheerfully speaking it feels good that Jerry Dubin, Michael Lee and the directors of GSBC AKA Cyberian are all finally learning the biggest lesson of their lives, which is when you stretch the truth, watch out for the snap back!

What these people forgot was with lies you may get ahead in the world - but you can never go back! The fact is none of these people will ever be successful in business simply because like all valuable commodities, truth is often counterfeited. Yes the Smart Screen Business was a winner and will continue to grow worldwide; nevertheless the truth is Cyberian technologies is just a web site online to protect the bruised egos of charlatans’ but most importantly to keep face in Asia.

Of course the cruelest lies I had to experience were the ones that were told by the GSBC Shareholder silence. I guess the reality about the Cyberian people is bad enough So Shareholders figured why should they tell the truth or get involved to help Ronald Flynn? So yes it’s true, the cruelest lies are often told in silence!

In my opinion the truth is the only thing worth having, and, in a civilized life, like ours, where so many risks are removed; facing the truth is almost the only courageous thing left we can do for ourselves.

I had to face my own demons 1 year ago and realize that people in general don’t want you to succeed. The reality is some people would much rather hear the lie’s than the truth. Some people in GSBC now hate me for uncovering the truth. They liked it much better when they could point there finger at me and call me the bad guy!

What can I do, stop and just let these people continue to hurt me? Should I have just allowed them to continue with the Cyberian Masquerade? Maybe I should have just let them win and walk away. But my heart is too big for that! I am a winner and always have been. The truth is I know how to win and have always been a team player! The truth is I am a Win Win negotiator and have always been more than fair with every person I have ever met.

These people were to my demise with GSBC because I made them believe they were better than they were. I made them believe they didn’t need me! I made them believe they could take it all away and nobody would do anything because they had so much power.

Yes I will take the blame for teaching these people how to have a positive attitude and believe in themselves. Yes I will also take the blame for making these people think that they were invincible. That has always been my attitude and I teach it to ever one because it works!

Sadly though it only lasts when you tell the truth and stand for something. I remember my grandfather told me when I was just a young boy, “son you gotta stand for something or you will fall for anything, and always remember, a fool and his money are soon departed!”

I thought why are you telling me that I am not a fool and I have always stood up for what is right! I even laughed and chuckled and said thanks grandpa I will always remember what you say cuz I know you love me and you are a wise old man.

Well on June 24, 2008 I turned 45 and I wish I could tell my grandpa how Right he was with only one exception!

I would say Gramps, GSBC was falling and I stood there and stood for what was right! I never gave up just like you taught me! I just stood my ground and never fell down, but Gramps it was not good enough! I stood my ground and found out I was a big fool for believing that I had lots of friends and that people would thank me. Instead I found out the hard way. unhappily I can count all my friends on one hand.

The truth is very few people really care about what I have done or had to go through! The fact is last year I gifted Fightersoft shares to GSBC shareholders who had been hurt by GSBC AKA Cyberian because I felt it was the right thing to do!

Now it has dawned on me that I should have really paid attention to my grandpa instead of laughing and chuckling at him. He was so right a fool and his money are soon departed! I have learned this not by listening to Gramps or reading books or talking on the phone, I have learned it from absolute silence!

Regards
Ronald Flynn

Silence is golden

10 comments:

karen e. said...

Ronald Flynn is right in every word he said in this blog. I strongly agree with his grandfather when he said "a fool and his money are soon departed".

annie said...

I am very proud of you Mr. Flynn...You are the man!...hope everybody like you.

God be with you always.

Keep up the good work...

I salute you man.

karen e. said...

Trusting another person requires a realistic perspective about people and an expectation of failure. Trust needs to be combined with a willingness to forgive and grows best in an environment of acceptance and love. But, honestly, when this applied to those following person who betrayed Mr. Flynn, it is certainly useless. Useless in the sense that this group of people (pertaining to cyberian guys)are unforgivable. As i believe, trust, in a practical sense, means that you place confidence in someone to be honest with you, faithful to you, keep promises, vows and confidences and not abandon you.. But look, these cyberian guys who treated as friends by Mr. Flynn are all a bunch of feeble-minded. They are absolutely dishonest, unfaithful and more importantly, they abandoned a person even if it is their friend, when they get nothing to that person..

annie said...

Ron you just trust them, and you think that they are true to you...

But anyway, they don't deserve what you gave to them, so it is good that you be seperated with them. Early as possible you know that they are untrusted person, they just want your money and your fame and glory.

annie said...

Anyway Ron, you been departed with them, so you better learn your lesson for trusting people.

GOOD LUCK Ron!..I know you can coop this situation, it's just only a beggining of your journey in life.

There still have any kind of person trying to let you down, not only the CYBERIAN people.

So you better take care and be aware of all the people you be with. They know you but you dont know them.

annie said...

They are trying to get you because of your money, they just want your money....BE CAREFULL RON FLYNN...

karen e. said...

Money is all that matters to them. Friendship is nothing without money.They're devils.

annie said...
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annie said...

Well Ron you deserve of what you have and what you got now...

CONGRATULATIONS..Keep up the good work.

Jenny Palmero said...

Yes you true Mr. Ronald Flynn, A liar person will not succed. To tell the truth is more important, and it will became succesfull.